Now, imagine having a powerful sexual experience with your partner. The feelings before, during, and after great sex are not always the same. The pleasure and emotions also may differ. However, you can certainly appreciate the variety and uniqueness of each encounter.
When couples write to us about their experiences with TRUST, it's powerful. They tell us about their shock, amazement, and satisfaction with TRUST. To us, it is simple: when you combine the relaxing power of massage with the power of sex, amazing things happen. When you use TRUST, you are applying a kinesthetic pleasure map to your partner's body (and your body).
The big secret is that you get better with practice. Like meditation, exercise, skiing, or most activities, the more you work at it, the better you get. The pleasure combinations are incalculable, and TRUST allows your creative side to run wild. The more you massage and make love to your partner with TRUST, the deeper you both will experience pleasure.
People often experience anxiety when doing something for the first time. At the same time, research suggests that relationships are strengthened when couples learn or experience new things together. TRUST captures this dynamic by bringing novelty to the bedroom every time you use it. Couples who are struggling to spice things up often report that TRUST enabled them to get out of their heads, lose themselves, and discover new things about each other. This strengthening of connection builds resilience in intimate relationships.
An old, experienced lumberjack was challenged to a competition by a younger, stronger lumberjack. Whoever could chop down the most trees in a day would win.
The competition began, and the younger lumberjack worked all through the day and all through the night. As he worked he could hear the older lumberjack chopping away in another part of the forest. The younger lumberjack felt more and more confident with every tree he fell. Further, the sounds echoing through the woods suggested less activity from the older lumberjack. The younger lumberjack was sure that his youth, strength, and endurance would result in victory.
Regularly throughout the day, the noise of chopping coming from the other part of the forest would cease entirely. The younger lumberjack's morale increased during these periods, knowing that this meant the older lumberjack was resting. The younger lumberjack did not stop, but swung his axe harder, determined to seize a huge win.
The competition ended, and the lumberjacks stood side by side. The judges counted the trees each man fell, and the results were read aloud. The older, experienced lumberjack was victorious, and the margin between the two men was not even close. The younger, stronger lumberjack was devastated with the outcome. He turned to the older lumber jack and said, “How can this be? I heard you take a rest every hour! I worked continuously through the night . . . and I am stronger and fitter than you old man!”
The older lumberjack turned to him and said, “Every hour I took a break to rest . . . and to sharpen my axe.”
Translation, you need to take time to rest and rejuvenate. Otherwise, no matter how hard you try, you will wear yourself thin. Burning the candle at both ends damages your health, your family, your friendships, and your intimate relationship(s). TRUST facilitates active recovery. By relaxing and indulging in intimate play with your partner, you wash away stress -- resharpening your focus, and allowing you to live efficiently.
Years ago, I had the good fortune of receiving a massage from a very talented body worker in London. Before starting, he took photos in order to show the before and after. This was no ordinary massage, it was Kinesis Myofascial Integration, also known as "rolfing." Over the course of several hours, and a lot of pain, my body was repositioned. Occasionally he would find a spot on my leg or ankle and say, "You injured this spot at some point." What he did not know was that I was already remembering the old injury before he verbalized his observation -- our issues often truly are in our tissues.
After the massage ended, he took more photos, and we compared the before and after shots. I was amazed. I had no idea just how out of alignment my body was. One shoulder was higher than the other, my "relaxed" posture was quite forward leaning, and my hips were even off. This was frustrating, because I considered myself quite healthy overall, yet the wear and tear on my body was apparent. The after shots were much improved, but the evidence of old injury and damage remained present. I asked him what I could do to further improve, especially if I could not come to London for regular KMI sessions with him. "Just relax more, do meditation, Chi Gung, and even get regular massages," he said.
The point is, we don't all have to go in search of powerful body workers to improve our physical condition. Just simply finding ways to actively relax is enough, and massage is a great way to do this. Massage with TRUST is even better due to the high quality of the ingredients. Massage with TRUST and your lover is greater still because maximizes your gains to your health and relationship. You are enabling your minds, bodies, and spirits to become stronger, healthier, and more vibrant.
Using TRUST increases your capacity for flow. Using TRUST during intimate play often leads to a flow-like state of lovemaking. Through massage and relaxation, you find yourself immersed in sexual activity with your partner. TRUST is a versatile guide, allowing you to glide smoothly with your partner.
But what about outside of the bedroom? Most people find that massages with TRUST allow them to quiet and escape their internal critic. Whether this happens on a massage table, or in the bedroom, it does not matter. The collateral effects result in the ability to enter the flow state more readily in any environment. Your comfort zone increases, and you can handle the obstacles life throws your way.
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